Sigh just spent the last 2 days helping a friend of mine get over a break up, why is it no one can see just wonderful your friends are except for you and your other friends, maybe thats why it hurts so much to see them in pain. You try and say all the right things to them its for the best, you are better off without them etc, but its not really the words that help after a while I think. I think its knowing you have people around you who care enough to tell you those things in the first place even when they know that they are just phrases everyone says and that the only real solution is time itself.